I've always loved accessorizing, but for a long time, I felt restricted by this unspoken rule: don't mix metals. Gold with gold, silver with silver. It felt like a fashion commandment I couldn't break. But then, I started noticing how some people effortlessly pulled off mixed metal looks, and I began to wonder if I was missing out on a whole world of possibilities. So, I decided to experiment, and I'm here to share what I've learned. Mixing metals can add dimension and personality to your outfits, and it's not as daunting as it seems!
Early on, I was so concerned about "matching" that I wouldn't even consider wearing gold earrings with a silver necklace. It felt wrong, like a fashion faux pas waiting to happen. I remember one time I was getting ready for a party, and I had this gorgeous silver necklace I wanted to wear. But all my favorite earrings were gold. I ended up sacrificing the necklace because I was too afraid of the mismatched look. Looking back, I realize how much I limited myself!
Then, something shifted. I got two rings that I absolutely loved and wore every single day. One was a steel engineering ring, and the other was my wedding and engagement rings, both in platinum. Suddenly, the whole "matching metals" thing became impossible. I wasn't about to ditch my rings! That's when I realized I needed to let go of the old rules and embrace the freedom of mixing metals. I started to just do whatever I wanted.
I even used to stress about the hardware on my bags and jackets! If I was wearing silver jewelry, I felt like I had to use a bag with silver zippers and clasps. It was exhausting and, frankly, a little ridiculous. It took time, but I learned to relax and enjoy the process of creating unique and interesting combinations.
The key, I discovered, is to make the mixing look intentional. Just throwing on random pieces can sometimes look a bit haphazard. For example, simply wearing gold earrings with a single silver necklace might come across as a mistake. However, wearing gold earrings with a layered combination of gold and silver necklaces, and then adding a silver ring or bracelet, looks deliberate and stylish.
One of my favorite ways to mix metals is by layering necklaces. I might start with a delicate gold chain and then add a chunkier silver pendant. The contrast in texture and weight, as well as color, makes the look more dynamic and interesting. I found this really works well with the 2021 Vintage Rhinestone Choker Necklace for Women Boho Ethnic Style Retro Carved Neck Chokers Maxi Necklace Collares from BlingCharming. The vintage vibe and the mix of textures really complements layered looks. I love how it adds a touch of bohemian flair to any outfit. Layering it with a simple gold chain makes it pop!
Another thing I've learned is that it's okay to break the rules! If you love a particular combination, wear it with confidence. Fashion is about expressing yourself, and there's no right or wrong way to do it. I'm currently wearing gray gold earrings in my second hole, and my daily wear ring is 18kt yellow gold, and I wear yellow/white/rose/etc with all the things. This is my way of not being afraid to express myself.
Here are some tips I've picked up along the way that can help you confidently mix metals in your outfits: